Wednesday, January 4, 2012

2011






It's our anniversary! One year ago today, we arrived in China. Boy has this year been full of ups and downs, laughter and tears, bonding and self-awareness. "It seems like yesterday" is such a cliche that I hesitate to use it here, but really...it seems like yesterday. 


My goal from the beginning of this journey was to remember to appreciate everything within the experience. I knew that there would be challenges, and I knew that I would tend to let the challenges overshadow the gems. And, to be honest, most days my brain was so overloaded that I took little time to truly reflect on what an amazing experience this is for my family. Every now and then, however, I would slap myself on the cheeks, pull myself out of the look-at-what-I-can't-do rut, and flip through the mental photo album of this journey so far. Wow! What an experience! I can sincerely say that I'm thankful for every moment - from simple every day victories like making macaroni and cheese to once-in-a-lifetime feats like climbing the Great Wall.


Today, on our China anniversary, I'm feeling nostalgic (if nostalgic can apply to a mere one year of experiences). At any rate, just look at what we've done! Correction...look at what God is doing.


On our way to China: This was the first plane ride for the
 kids. Now, they have flown on  more than a dozen planes.
Morgan's birthday was about three weeks
after we arrived. I spoke NO Chinese at that
point, and it took three painfully
confusing hours to order this birthday cake.
We arrived in the heart of winter's deep freeze. Brrrrrr! 

The kids started school a little over a week
after arriving. It took a while for all of us to adjust to
the differences, but now they run the place. ;-) 

The fireworks during Chinese New Year


Christian earned a spot in the school spelling bee with only
two weeks of preparation. The other students had two months.

Here's one of the ways we adapted to Chinese lifestyle.
We have no clothes dryer, so we hang our laundry
in the window. Homeowners associations all over
the U.S. are cringing.



Farell quickly found ways to stay active. The basketball
team even gave him a Chinese name.



Hong Kong Disney
By March, we were all in need of a get away. The kids
accepted all the sacrifices and adjustments without uttering
one single complaint. They deserved an awesome get-away.





Prior to Chinese New Year we envisioned huge festivals
with dancing dragons, but there was none of that
here. Our first authentic lion/dragon dance occurred
months later in Hong Kong.

The temperature outside was still a little nippy, but it was
just right inside the greenhouse for strawberries. Of
course in China we wouldn't dare eat them while picking,
but after a good soaking in veggie wash and vinegar...
YUMMY!

Chinese food-eating adventures





This was the first Easter that we didn't have an egg hunt
and dye eggs at my mother's house, but she made
sure we had plastic eggs and decorating supplies. Thank
God for my mama and DHL!
Just as I was beginning to feel defeated
by all things China, our driver helped me
find some gorgeous lilies for Easter.


International day at the Christian fellowship we attend.
What a blessing it is for all us to worship along with
believers from all over the world. Chinese nationals are
not permitted by the government to attend. 

Spring finally arrived. We were so excited to see that
the trees here actually do have leaves.
With Spring came new bikes. By this time my Chinese
was good enough to negotiate at the bike shop.
I got both of these for about $60.
Another lovely occurrence with the arrival of spring is
the 4 am sunrise. Good grief! That's even tough for early 
birds like me.
Just before his birthday, Christian started guitar lessons
and picked out a cool new guitar. I was so glad he
finally had something to call his own.
Tea, glorious tea. I've fallen in love with Chinese tea.
For Mother's day my family gave me my first authentic 
tea set. Tea party anyone?



On Monday, we received a note that on Friday students
should dress up as their favorite book character. What?!!
I spent four hours at Wu Ai market searching for
inspiration.Whoo hoo! Harry Potter glasses! 


Summer came and we wasted no time heading back to the
states. We heard the summer heat is as extreme as the
winter cold.


School resumed with lots of fun. This was the BEST
field day I've ever attended. Fun! Fun! Fun!



Fall comes quickly here and it's beautiful. There's full
color by early October.
The fall also brought a new job for me. I began teaching at
a small Chinese school. It takes another blog post to tell
about how God has used this experience to prune me and
shape me. I'll never be the same.


I asked for pumpkins, and pumpkins I received. I was met
with blank stares when I said, "Um, do you have any
orange ones?" (We did eventually find some.)


During fall break, we went to the aquarium with our driver
and his family. Outings like this are universal; no
translations necessary. 
I love that Morgan has a great balance of girlie and sporty.
Her volleyball team came in 2nd place at the tournament.
Still haven't found any regular team sports or physical
activities for Christian, but in October his P.E. teacher
introduced him to cup stacking (it's a serious sport). He's
actually quite good, but as of yet, there are no official
competitions in China. 

Our Non-traditional Thanksgiving Day
I can't say enough about the awe I felt 
walking the Great Wall with my children.
No textbook or website can compete
with this.


After doggedly turning down many peddlers trying
to get over on the foreigners, we decided to accept a
rickshaw ride. This driver took our money ($7), then dropped
us off one hours walk from our desired destination.
Life lessons learned the hard way... 


Outside the Imperial Palace in Beijing.
After the frustrating rickshaw incident, this is what God
presented to us. Our feet were aching and so was our pride,
but how can you focus on that with such
tranquility in front of you.   

I got the boys to drink tea! Unfortunately, this tea vendor
in Beijing tried to take advantage of us and I came home to
discover I had purchased a used package of tea.

I don't know if they still do them in the states, but this
school had middle school science fair. As usual, my baby
went above and beyond. We put this one away for her PhD
thesis. 

I was determined to have a Christmas tree.
Once again, I came home with something
less than I anticipated. The tree on display
was much fuller than this one, but "yay me"
for accomplishing the purchase.

Another Christmas tradition I was determined to fulfill was
Christmas dinner. No turkeys in Shenyang, but whole
chickens are no problem! Ewww! Yes, I chopped off the
head and feet and removed whatever organs those were
inside. I tell you what, it was the tastiest bird I've ever roasted.
(I forgot to take an after picture.)




A new tradition we began this year was ice
skating on Christmas Eve.


We've come full circle, back to winter. This is our New Year's
ski trip. Fun, but c-c-cold! I don't think any of us are in a
hurry to do it again.









Bring it on 2012!









Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Quick Hit: What a Difference a Year Makes

It was about this time last year when we told our children that we would be moving to China. Morgan cried...no...she WAILED. The look on her face is etched in my memory like a photograph. Although I anticipated her reaction, it was still heartbreaking to see her so emotional. I held her tightly without saying a word and simply gave her time grieve. A few days later, I decided it was time to talk. I shared that I was nervous about the move also, but because I had been through seemingly devastating experiences which turned out to be wonderful, I knew that this would be fine. "Unfortunately", I said, "as a child you haven't had the opportunity to go through those types of experiences. I'm sure that this will be the first one for you. You'll look back and think 'I couldn't have imagined this would be so good.'" Today, I am happy to report that it seems I was right. Last night as she was packing for the middle school's  fall camp, she said, "I think middle school here is better than in America." She was so excited about camp, she could have burst. What a difference a year makes! Thank you Lord!

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Week Two...Check!













I now have two full weeks of school under my belt, and I'm feeling much more comfortable with things.

The math curriculum arrived about a week after school began. I was excited to see that it's Everyday Math! This is the same math curriculum Lexington District One uses. How cool is that?!

I'm still entirely on my own for language arts, though. It's a blessing and a curse. I have complete freedom to tailor our language arts program to fit my teaching style and my kid's needs. Buuuuut, that's A LOT of work (particularly since I have no classroom library). I'm not sure what the plan is to put books in my classroom, but for now I'm borrowing from the international school's library. This serves the purpose, but it's not the ideal situation. Because it can be quite challenging and fairly expensive to obtain English books in Shenyang, the international school's library is modest in size and selection. I've quickly learned to accept what's available and make it work.

Our cozy little book nook


The empty baskets in our classroom library
anxiously awaiting a few good books

On a more positive note, I've already fallen in love with each of my students. They certainly make all the challenges worth it!

In the U.S. I found that while all children are unique and every class has a different overall dynamic, one can usually find a few typical personalities in each group. I quickly discovered those typical personalities in my crop of Chinese kiddos as well. There is Miss Everybody-look-at-me, Miss I-don't-wanna-do-it-and-you're-not-gonna-make-me (had to nip that attitude in the bud quickly), and Mr. I'm-so-smart-but-oh-soooo-active. This type of child steals my heart every time (perhaps because I have one in my own household that I can't help but love to pieces). ;-)

Now without further ado, I present Mrs. Scott's National School 1st Grade Class...



Jimmy
Athletic and All Boy

He's harder on himself than I will ever be on him. Affirming words are a must. I love his proud smile when he knows he accomplished a task well.




Scarlett
The Girly Girl

She wears frilly dresses and floral satin shoes. She says good morning without prompting each morning and blows me a kiss before going home every afternoon.
What teacher wouldn't want to take her home?! 


Charlie 
Super Smart, Super Independent

I can always count on Charlie to complete tasks thoroughly the first time...every teacher's dream. Boy, will he go far in his learning this year!






Ada
Teacher # 2

Her English is excellent and she doesn't mind using it. She's quite effective in keeping those classmates of hers in line. Once we fine tune her leadership skills, she'll be a force to be reckoned with!












Luis
Our Little Daydreamer

Luis is the only child who consistently calls me Mrs. Scott rather than teacher. I like that.
He's a hard-worker with impeccable behavior. Now, if I can just get him focus long enough to remember Mrs. Scott's instructions from 30 seconds ago, we'll be good to go. ;-)









John
The Class Clown

As with all class clowns, he wears that badge with honor. I must admit, he makes me smile daily. Not only that, he has a TON of energy! Once we get him to settle down and get serious, he accomplishes amazing things. I'm sure I won't be able to hold back the tears when it's time to say goodbye to John.
Christina
Our Blue-eyed Sweetheart

Christina's mom is Chinese;  her dad is Danish. She's a Chinese girl through and through, but with blonde hair and blue eyes, she looks anything but Chinese. She's truly a friend to all. Everyone loves her - the boys, the girls...and Mrs. Scott, too.
Sunny
Sunny with a Chance of Spunk

Well, the side-eyed look in her self-portrait says it all. Gotta keep our eyes on this spunky little cutie. She has super-human will, but with a teacher who knows the art of "passive resistance", there are no power struggles here. Now that we have that out of the way, this memorization queen is going to soar in all areas. She has incredible potential.





Two more cutie-pies, Helen and King...yes, King, were added to our class family this past week. When they complete their self-portraits, I'll introduce them to you as well.

By the way, in case you were wondering, the names above are not the children's birth names. Most Chinese people adopt an English name when they begin to learn English. These children's parents selected the names they would use in our class. I haven't learned their Chinese names, yet, but I will soon. I can't wait to shock them by calling them by their given names. Actually, they will probably find it quite comical. The sound of Mrs. Scott attempting to speak Chinese generally brings about lots of giggles. But, hey...giggles are good.